"Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous." Carrie Bradshaw

Friday, August 22, 2008

We're NOT friends!

Guy Number 1 . . . the photographer . . . I thought he was a done deal. In the past, no more time wasted on thinking about him so imagine my surprise when I get a text message from him at about 9:30 last night!

It says "there is an old Brad Smith game on ch. 59." And I did flip over just to see and it was true . . . but still. Did I really talk about liking Brad Smith that much? I can't even remember!

SERIOUSLY, though . .. I would LOVE to know what is going on in this guy's head. I just don't get it. I know that we talked for a few weeks and did develop a certain connection but that connection was snapped right in two the moment that I met him and realized how badly he had misrepresented himself. Why on earth does he think it is okay to still contact me? I haven't given him any feedback since I sent the "Good luck on your future dating endeavors" email. What else would that mean other than I never want to talk to you again? Can you really twist that statement into "let's be friends"?

And I'm no expert, but I think we might be edging on that fine line between annoying and stalker. The more he keeps contacting me, the more tempted I am to just lay it all out there for him and tell him EXACTLY how I feel about his pictures, his misrepresentation and his need to visit Victoria's Secret for a consultation!

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